We’ve recently connected with Jeremy who has had his son coming in for 1-on-1 lessons at our academy. He describes his and his son’s experiences, and offers insight in how our lessons turn a Love of gaming into social skills.
1-on-1 Lessons that Help Turn a Love of Gaming into Social Skills
Jeremy’s son Holden, has autism, and isn’t currently in formal education. Like many parents of children aged 8–16, Jeremy and his wife were searching for something that could:
- Spark Holden’s interest
- Encourage him to get out of the house
- Build his confidence and social skills
- Feel safe and welcoming without overwhelming him
Group sessions weren’t an option due to Holden’s anxiety levels. But when Jeremy reached out to Play New Meta Academy, the team offered something different… tailored 1-on-1 gaming lessons and informal mentoring designed to suit Holden’s needs. Ultimately helping him build skills through his love of gaming.
Feeling at Home from Day One
From the first visit, Holden came home excited and full of stories. He loved the comfortable space, the friendly team, and even the noodles served in the café.
“When Holden comes to Meta, he isn’t ‘autistic Holden.’ He’s just Holden the gamer,”
That shift in identity, from being defined by a diagnosis to simply being part of a gaming community, was a turning point. Holden’s shoulders relaxed the moment he walked through the door, and his parents could see he felt safe, welcomed, and understood.
Why Gaming Mentorship Works for Kids with Autism
Play New Meta Academy’s 1-on-1 sessions gave Holden:
- A calm, low-pressure environment for social interaction
- Positive role models who understand both gaming and online culture
- Opportunities to build resilience by learning how to handle wins and losses in games
These experiences didn’t just help Holden’s gameplay. They improved his real-world communication, patience, and self-confidence.
More Than Just Gaming Skills
Before starting sessions, Holden could become anxious or upset if something went wrong in a game, like losing in Fortnite or struggling with a skill.
Now, he’s learned that:
- Mistakes aren’t failures — they’re chances to try again
- Gaming skills can improve over time with practice
- Staying calm helps both in gaming and daily life
“Don’t underestimate the drip-feed power of becoming good at something. That confidence flows into other areas of life.”
A Place He Always Wants to Return To
Jeremy points out that Holden’s demand avoidant profile means he often starts activities and then refuses to return. But Play New Meta Academy has been different — he’s always wanted to come back.
This consistency has helped Holden:
- Build lasting relationships
- Strengthen his social skills
- Develop trust in a safe, structured environment
Closing Thoughts and Recommendations from Jeremy
Jeremy’s advice to other parents of children aged 8–16 — especially those with autism, social anxiety, or special educational need, is simple:
“Take them down and let them enjoy it. The wider impact on their life may surprise you.”
Interested in our service?
💡 Ready to help your child build skills, confidence, and friendships through gaming?
Play New Meta Academy offers 1-on-1 sessions and small group classes for children aged 8–16, tailored to their needs and interests. We actively offer FREE trial sessions as a way for families to explore our services and find out if it’s a good fit for them!
